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Ways To Attract Ladies - Varied Signals And Flirting
When we are discussing the subject of "picking up women." I often get asked what to do in order to "pick up women", or simply "how to pick up women".
I not long ago got asked the doubt: "Why do females flirt with you and when you flirt back they snub it? It's so puzzling!!!" I thought it was exciting and important enough to share.
First of all, women have different personalities. What is being mentioned here is a kind of personality, not all females in general. The personality type that typically does this kind of actions is a little unstable. They are testing the water, but they don't actually want to jump in.
The best way to handle this personality type is when you see it is not to respond, not to take the bait so to talk. Let the girl flirt all she likes, let her take the lead. Let her manage how the romance goes. If you don't react, she will get close to you and steepen the gradient gradually. If you react (flirt back) she will usually run away.
Problem is, however, people with equal or compatible personalities often hang out together. So quite often you can get the feeling that the whole world is in one direction, when in fact it may be merely a certain percentage of persons who are like that. So if you tend to think ALL women are one way, change your environment. Go somewhere different, meet different people in different environments and perhaps you will find out different personality types and possibly one that is more suitable for you.
Now having said that, let's observe it from a different perspective. Women in general enjoy flirting for flirting's sake more than men do. Men will flirt because they are interested in a woman. Women will flirt to see if they get a response, to find if they are looking good and are attractive, even when they are not serious about a man. They will flirt with a man they are only thinking about being friends with.
One approach to get better control of these situations is to look at all the communication mediums that a woman is making use of to communicate - Like oral, emotional, physical, mental, and sexual communications.
When a girl likes you she will certainly communicate that she likes you through all of the communications channels. When she is just playing around she will give you conflicting communications. So when you find a woman flirting with you, but she does not support the flirting by showing you she likes you over ALL the communication channels - don't take the flirtation seriously.
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